Trying to get a paper written. It's not so hard it just is one where I have to think a lot because it's about counseling men. And so I've re-written one page about 40 times.
I introduced it by examining my potential countertransferences (when counseling men). So basically it's all about how afraid I used to be of my dad (and men) due to his/their anger. I talk about how I have had to examine that fear and my judgments surround it so that when I am with men I am able to hear their anger. This is important because for men feelings of anger often (but not always) are the on-ramp for other feelings like sadness.
Good times. OK back to writing.