"y" is officially coming for the weekend. She doesn't live that far away but far enough that she needs to stay over night. And so she's coming Friday night and leaving Sunday after church. Which is a lot of time. I think however it will be just fine. We are still trying to talk about if we are going to just be friends or date or what in the world this is. We discussed what dating is. My definition is based on pretty much nothing but I said it for me it means I'd be open to the possibility of kissing. She said for her it's an exclusive relationship. Which I'm not ready for! Plus I don't think she's over her ex even though it's been almost two years. So for that reason alone I'm not into any exclusive dating thing. But what do I know I've never dated.
O another thing that will be happening this weekend is my first visit to a gay and lesbian bar. Frankly I'm scared of them. However I am going with a bunch of people a few of who I know and who I trust. And I'm not really a drinker at all so I don't anticipate any drunken anything out of me. I can leave at any time. And I can just visit and be there with the group I'm going with. No idea how I will react if someone hit's on me. But "y" will be with too so that will probably curtail that activity. Which is fine even if we are just friends. I just get anxious/shy.
My friend "j" said she wishes she could come with just to see this event, me at such a place. I fear that people want to see such an event because it's the equivalent of taking pollyanna (from that really old movie) out for the first time.